photo courtesy of bravotv.com It is over for "The Real Housewives of New York City" star Luann de Lesseps and husband, Tom D'Agostino and we are just so shocked. Ha, not really as this was a doomed marriage from the start. Let's recap: Tom was first flirting with co-star Ramona Singer back in 2007 then went on around five dates with her a few August's back. During this time, he Tom spent a decade as friends with benefits to Sonja Morgan , another housewife from the franchise. It was Dorinda Medley , who joined the cast in season 7, that set up D'Agostino and Luann, whom fell madly in love. It did not even bother the Countess that one week into her engagement and a few nights before her grandiose engagement party on a yacht in Palm Beach, Tom was off making out with some random chick at a hotel.